Thursday, December 23, 2010

THEY CAME BEARING GIFTS


It's almost Christmas!!! I love this time of year --- not for the part about the presents ---- but for the part about the present - you know, the right here & now! The anticipation of being with the people you love, for good food & good times and the chance to, once again, let my creative juices flow and pull out all the stops in decorating ---- getting ready for the big day. The lead up is what it's all about for me --- listening to my favorite Christmas music 24 hrs a day, reading special holiday stories and daily, being reminded to focus on the BIG present --- and because HE really IS the "Reason for the Season", I like to be sure that in times of laughter and getting to know others deeper and celebrating life, that we talk about the really important stuff too.

I love words --- I love that some words are spelled the same, but mean something entirely different .... I know God made me to love words .... I love how when words are put in just the right order, they can speak straight to your heart. Early last week, when I was looking for some sort of 'story' to share, I came across a number of descriptive accounts regarding the Three Wise Men, that spoke to my heart.

I love that in much of scripture, God hides interesting detail. Not 'hides', as in ---- no one can ever find it --- but almost as if He puts information there - just under the surface - so that if we're willing to dig a little deeper, we get the reward of fuller understanding .... and also, I think, to show the depth of Who HE is .....

The Three Wise Men found Jesus after following the 'star'. They didn't know exactly what they'd find at the end of their journey, but fully expected it to be worthy of the gifts they bore -- gifts fit for a King -- as recorded in Matthew 2:11 ... Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh. Three gifts - each holding a real 'present' value and a prophetic 'future' value.

They brought GOLD. Gold was a symbol of kingship, power and virtue. It represented, then as now, financial security. It's obvious that gold would have been beneficial due to the fact the Holy Family was poor. Isn't it amazing that God provided the means necessary for a long and expensive journey into Egypt, and to sustain Joseph, Mary and Jesus in a foreign land where they would live for an extended time?

They brought FRANKINCENSE. This was the priestly gift, a type of incense, and was used in religious ceremonies to give honor to that which was considered holy. It was one of the elements used in holy anointing (Exodus 30:34) ......and was also used to keep the bugs away - kind of like lighting a 'cat-tail'. This sweet smelling resin comes as the result of the tree's woundedness and pain..... hmmmmmmm, slightly prophetic I'd say ..... foretelling that the ultimate sacrifice Jesus would give would be a holy offering.

When we can worship God in the midst of our sorrow .... our brokenness.... then it is a sweet smelling offering. That's why David said, "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise." Psalms 51:1 Frankincense signified his Priestly office -- his re -'presenting' us!

They brought MYRRH. Both frankincense and myrrh have healing properties, but myrrh was also used to embalm the dead because it had superior preservative qualities. This gift symbolized Christ's death on the cross and the embalming to come after. This was the hard, the bitter gift. It was a symbol that Christ would be willing to do the hardest task that God would call him to do, that He came to live with us as a man and die for us.

Interesting that neither frankincense or myrrh are available until the trees which produce the sap are cut (wounded) and allowed to "bleed' or pour out their offering.... and yet, they contain intrinsic healing properties, that only become apparent and available after enduring the devastation.

Together, the Wise Men brought gifts representing the three roles God intended for Jesus the Messiah:

Our King ----- Our God ----- Our Saviour

Herod used his knowledge of Jesus' burth to attempt to kill him; the Wise Men used their knowledge to find Him and worship Him. Their worship involved giving of themselves; their time, their treasure, and their honor.

Like them, when we truly come to Jesus to worship Him, we must be willing to offer our time, our treasure, our honor ...... ourselves.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

WAITING TO EXHALE






November 28, 2010

We’re driving back from San Diego…. Well, he’s driving – I’m riding. I think this is the first holiday return trip that we’ve made in a long while where we didn’t wait till Monday to drive back home --- but hey, we’ve got stuff to do! Of course, the other 356,229 families heading north on I-5 are right behind us!!

In the last few weeks, a number of my FB friends have been posting what they’re grateful for each day….. while most of them were good reminders to be appreciative for the really important things each day, I found myself just simply, yet anxiously waiting for Thanksgiving Day – when I would see Rachel with my own eyes and hug her tight …. Then I could let my breath out, knowing she really was o.k.

I find myself holding my breath a lot. I don’t think it’s good for your blood pressure…. And it can make you turn blue. Not that THAT has happened to me. But, in moments of anxiousness --- like when you’re wondering whether the insurance company is gonna cover THIS doctor opinion visit --- or when Ra calls to ask us to pray, because the nerve in her leg is acting up …. The very thing you don’t want to hear after being told that’s one of the things that can be damaged by the radiation treatments she’s forced to endure to battle this C__C__ (funny, you could probably fill in those blanks with only the letter “a” and it would pretty much define the disease). You can see why I hold my breath a lot.

While I hold my breath literally, I’m trying not to hold my breath figuratively….. I’m trying not to put ‘life’ on hold as we wait out this process. It’s a really easy thing to do --- put your life on hold. And then you look back and realize that you haven’t enjoyed the little, everyday moments that make up a life. I want to fully appreciate those moments – reading out-loud from my MIL’s journal as we finish up our Thanksgiving drive – having the patience and time to let my 3 yr old grandson ‘help’ prepare dinner, and together, work on the USA puzzle …. for the 10th time that day.... Watching our daughter and son-in-law participate in their first communion service together, and feeling so blessed to have daughters, who along with their husbands, are pursuing a relationship with Jesus.... Getting lost in the eyes of our 4 month old granddaughter, knowing therein lies an ocean of love. …….

Did you hear that? I think I exhaled ………

Friday, March 27, 2009

SPRINGTIME (?) IN NEW YORK

I just got back from spending 12 whole days in SW New York with my sister, Kathie, and her family. They live 1.5 hrs south of Buffalo in the VERY small town of Houghton, where Dan is a professor at Houghton College and Kathie is the Executive assistant to the President.


Given the fact that they've had snow (and lots of it) since Thanksgiving, it wasn't surprising that everywhere you looked where different versions of snow shovels. It did get down to +7 several mornings, but other than a few flurries --- it was warm enough for most of the accumulated snow to have disappeared while I was there.



Kathie tried to welcome spring ---- she always has a special flower arrangement and a selection of little treats and fun stuff waiting for me in the bedroom.


See that little white scalloped holder? That's a neck scarf rolled up inside ---
How cute is that presentation? Thank goodness for the neck scarf -- I'm tellin' you!


When I introduce Kathie to friends in CA, I always tell them she's married to the 2nd most wonderful man in the world ---- Dan. They treated me like a queen --force fed me and let me sleep in as late as I wanted. I think the only sweet treat Kathie didn't make while I was there were "Philadelphia style Sticky Buns"!



Lucky for me, the first weekend I got there, my niece - Caitlin flew up from DC to spend the weekend with us --- she's a very important person @ the Hirschorn museum (part of the Smithsonian) (I'm name-dropping right now!)
Jesse is a Jr @ the college right there in town and lives in a townhome close by -- so we got to visit with him a good bit, as well as his girlfriend, Haleigh, an art student at the college.
Someone's missing in that family pic --- Jamie -- 16, a Jr in HS, an excellent drummer (I'm told), and obviously, not home too much --- always band, musical practice, work and hangin' out with friends to do. I did get to see him ..... tho I just can't prove it!


My brother (1 of 4!) Pete - also came up for the weekend from Philadelphia. It was so great to see him again --- he had been out last August with us in CA. We packed a lot in those 3 days!

Since in NY it's Maple Syrup Time --- we definitely had to hit the
MAPLE TREE INN for locally tapped/produced maple syrup & BUCKWHEAT pancakes.




The Maple Tree Inn is famous for the syrup and buckwheat pancakes --- people travel from far and wide to experience their product --- and this Sunday was no exception --- they even had to wait in the RAIN!



In the 2 hours we were there, that line didn't go down one bit --- that's not to say that it didn't move -- it moved alright --actually, pretty fast, but more people just kept SHOWING UP! That's because the Inn is only open for 3 (yep, that's right, THREE) months out of the year -- only when the sap is flowin'!


Believe me - this place is a cultural experience!!! I loved it. Check out the 'artwork' they have for you to peruse whilst waiting in line! (this sign cracked me up --- in case you can't see, it's attached to a telephone pole!)



Maple Tree Inn has quite the history -- the syrup production and restaurant started small by the grandparents & their business grew along with their family and people's appetites!
3 generations are still involved in the business --- that's somethin'

Of course, they have the requisite 'gift shop' .......


IHOP --- eat your heart out!!!!
I've never even liked buckwheat pancakes --
but these were the BOMB!


I love this pic of Pete at a little coffee shop (Muddy Waters) close to the church we went to both Sundays.


There are so many photo ops back east --- even tho it's drab and wintery --- these little finches congregate right outside Kathie's kitchen window --- such a bright spot after so much snow.

And everywhere you look is another dilapidated barn ---- I kept thinking of several photographer friends of mine in Cali who would LOVE to be able to roam around taking pictures here..... I tried my best.




Don't know if you can really see this well, but I just had to post this pic of Kathie's 'wash line'..... we ALWAYS had one growing up & she still uses one (a LOT) and yes, even in winter! It's a flashback to my past.



We had many wonderful times together -- over delicious meals (did I mention my sister is a fantastic cook?) worshipping together -- playing board games -- getting stuff ready for a yard sale (from the attic to the cellar) ....getting culture by attending the opening of a college art exhibit and piano recital .... lunch and shopping at special places and other meals with good friends ...... sorting thru family pictures from their years together ---- praying for our futures, and just loving on each other.
It felt so normal to be there .... and all too soon, it was time to leave.

THANK YOU KATHIE & DAN FOR A SPECIAL, SPECIAL TIME
I HOLD YOU ALL IN MY HEART.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Mimi's Here for Valentines...

MiMi's Back!!!

And she brought new STUFF with her!!!


She & my mom always take me to*Bux ....
I kinda like it too....



For my special Valentine......
and then the fun begins!

Move over BAKERELLA!!????
The Goods!


The Recipe via the Web...


And the Bake-off Begins!

M-M good .... oops! wait once,
that's the CAMPBELL'S tag...



In case you can't tell --
THAT'S CHOCOLATE!!!!
who new making truffles could be
so MESSY!!!


Me & Ra .... one of my valentines!


Waitin' on the goodies!

Man... bakin' is hard work ....
takin' a lunch break .. ...
good ol' Submarina...



Voi'la ... the piece of NO Resistance!!!!
These were the BEST truffles I've ever had
... and I have never really liked truffles!

Almost as good as Sprinkles!!


Worn out from all that cookin!

The cutest Valentine's couple in Murietta!

I'm pretty sure Leo's lookin' for that crazy Mimi of his!!
Keep an eye out for me Leo -- next time
I'll bring Grampa with me!

Friday, February 27, 2009

AND THE WINNER IS.............

So .... this is just a 'fluff' piece .... but I think a lot of us have this kind of angst ....

I have been 'looking' for a lamp for our bedroom for the last 6 months .... now the pink & green vintage piece we had in there was a beautiful accent during the spring & summer months when I changed out all the decor to pale pink and green .... but honestly!! what self-respecting decorator uses a pink/green lamp in a fall/winter bedroom whose main colors are cream/deep red/black? AND the lamp had to be just the right size/shape/color/price - the last point being pretty important!
Finally decided to take the plunge & told Ken that for my birthday, the only think I wanted was a new lamp...... and the hunt .... and my angst began......

Went to my favorite deco store "HOME GOODS" (sorry if you don't have one in your area)....
found 6 ( YES SIX) contenders, took pics on my phone and sent them to my girls for approval.
Finally made a decision & brought home LAMP # 1 ..... it was a beauty!

Now mind you, when I finally buy something that I've thought long & hard about, when I walk into that room & look at that piece --- I want to FEEL something!
Wasn't happening.
AGGGHGHGHGHGHGHHGHG!!!!!!
I hate that I have so much angst about a LAMP for pete's sake! (not to be confused with the Japanese drink .... Sake!) While it was a beautiful lamp, it just 'disappeared' against the cream walls..... and I wanted DRAMA!
I just figured I'd live with it for a while .... and see what happens.
NADA ... ZIP .... ZILCH.... ZERO ... would someone please bring in the gong?!

SO BACK TO HOME GOODS ...... knowing I now actually wanted the OTHER lamp with the gray patterned shade --- but would it still be there? Thank the Lord, it was. We traded and my new precious went home with me. (see below)


I find it maddening that I have no problem picking out 'stuff' for other people's homes, but when it comes to mine ---- I really wrestle with certain things.... probably 'cause I like so many different styles ..... actually, I LIKE IT ALL!!
Anyways ... I'm DONE decorating .......... for now. PHEW --- I'm tired.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!!!

Rachel & Trev --- We missed you!

Well -- life is full of surprises and this Christmas was no exception. Jenna,Sam and Leo planned a road trip -- first to Yuba Duba for the week BEFORE Christmas (isn't there a poem about that!?) and then on to Portland to celebrate the holiday with the Tunes clan ...... well, just in case you hadn't heard --- THERE WAS A TON OF SNOW IN PORTLAND!!! and even tho they decided to fly from here -- flights were cancelled due to a snowed - in airport ........ so we got to celebrate together after all!
They did eventually make their way north-- and stayed thru New Year's --- AFTER the snow melted a bit.

Here are some highlights of our
~ ~ 12 days of Christmas ~ ~
. . I KNOW there's a present in here
- - - somewhere


And now, I'll show it who's boss!


Of course, EVERYTHING must be climbed on!

SUCCESS



COOKIN' W/MIMI ........
believe me, this was SERIOUS BUSINESS ....
EATIN' MANDARINS ... skin & all!!


CHASIN' raindrops
&
runnin' thru puddles w/GRAMPA!!
(Must I mention he was SOAKED
till we were done --- but what fun!!)

RIDIN' my new PLASMACAR from
David & Judie !!!!! love that thing!

wouldn't YOU like to ride on my
BeauTiFul BalLooN?

Uncle Pete sent us a 'blast from our past'
. . . TASTYKAKES!!!


and Grampa certainly wasted no time
introducing them to Leo ----
I think it's called bonding?


. .Don't you LOVE the look on that face ?
. . . Leo's, I mean!


An honorary ride for Mom-Mom Keifer &
Aunt Kathie!!

This little rocker has a lot of history ---
It made it thru 4 Keifer kids (Beckie's side
of the family), 2 Miller siblings and
sundry other friends & family.
Mom-Mom Keifer would be proud Leo.

Headed out for yet another round!

Oh yeah, he DID fit some sleep
time in there somewhere!

Makin' music with Dad & Grampa

Leo's first 'beater lickin' ....
Hmmmmm.......this tastes familiar

Definitely NOT(yet)a 'beater' guy!
Can you believe it?

Another outside excursion with Mom & Dad
. . . I can't figure out why they BOTH
want to hold onto my hands!

OH --- that's why! .....

This picture takin' is for the birds!!
Seeeeee? there IS better stuff on the ground!

Kickin' the tires with Grampa ......
One last Jazz Session .....
. . .'Trainin' for the Future!

and One Final Picture with Grampa & Mimi

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL
&
TO ALL A GOOD NIGHT!!